tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38888044.post2093566955306543749..comments2023-10-22T04:04:26.768-04:00Comments on REDIRECTED TO MAYBEMAIMED.COM: Maybe Maimed but Never Harmed: Theory: Why subs write more than dom(me)sUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38888044.post-90057054554304146052007-03-19T11:50:00.000-04:002007-03-19T11:50:00.000-04:00For most fantasists, I think it feels safer to adh...For most fantasists, I think it feels safer to adhere to cheesy fantasies.<BR/><BR/>However, I suspect that "true subs" want to submit to a <I>real</I> person rather than a sort of parody dom.<BR/><BR/>I've been trying to take this to its logical conclusion by finding ways of writing about vanilla doms. My best attempt yet is my whips and stockingtops world: http://chasteerotica.blogspot.com/2006/10/chaste-erotica-whips-and-stockingtops.htmlGiles Englishhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06078027627281038866noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38888044.post-63334050516612094622007-03-19T02:49:00.000-04:002007-03-19T02:49:00.000-04:00Giles English:Yes, most Femdom "advertisements" ar...Giles English:<BR/><BR/>Yes, most Femdom "advertisements" are appalingly unattractive to me as a submissive male. And what scenes would I like to read? Dear lord, I'm almost afraid to say...sometimes my fantasies are too extreme even for me. :) Perhaps I will write an answer to that question one day, but not tonight, my friend.<BR/><BR/>Richard:<BR/><BR/>Exactly! Dominants, I feel, are not necessarily less introspective as a class, but they certainly seem to be less extroverted about their introspected thought processes. Perhaps this stems from the very nature of D/s, wherein a submissive often reveals their desires and innermost secrets to the dominant of their choice in order to provide the dominant partner with ammunition to fuel their submission. Interesting circle, I think.<BR/><BR/>Either way, it's an awesome sort of psychological synergy.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38888044.post-87467888183674022792007-03-18T13:52:00.000-04:002007-03-18T13:52:00.000-04:00There's quite a bit of blogging by submissive pers...There's quite a bit of blogging by submissive persons that seems to stem in part from the need to be found pleasing: performance analysis, aspirations for behavior change, improvement. <BR/><BR/>There is a real possibility that dominants as a "class" are less introspective about what they do in BDSM. I'm not suggesting less thoughtful in a serious sense. Just the nature of being a "doer."<BR/><BR/>Dominants are certainly capable of feeling that talking about their motivations and doubts undermines their image.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38888044.post-5346976173326811252007-03-17T10:31:00.000-04:002007-03-17T10:31:00.000-04:00"Granted, these things may not be written about ne..."Granted, these things may not be written about nearly as often because they are really hard to do well, or even at all. "<BR/><BR/>I think it is hard to do femdom well and not make it cheesy. However, it can be done if you know how. <BR/><BR/>What scenes would you like to read?Giles Englishhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06078027627281038866noreply@blogger.com